I need relationship help?

This is how I guess they all start off. "I feel like my fiance doesn't love me anymore." He just peckks me on the cheek and lips, doesn't hold me close to him anymore unless my hair has just been washed,(sounds silly but true) , and rarely exists anymore. And can u believe that he forgot valentines day, two of my birthdays and christmas? For them, I got him something and made it special. For me? Nothing! I always feel like I give and get nothing in return anymore. He says he listening but acts like he doesn't. I'm on the brink of calling it off but don't know what to do! Is it me or him? Or am I just being greedy??